So here is what you need to do: risk it. Be truthful with him you want up to now him and that the FWB arrangement isn’t any longer working.
So here is what you need to do: risk it. Be truthful with him you want up to now him and that the FWB arrangement isn’t any longer working. If he gives you grief about this–and he will probably, according to that which you’re saying here–remember you are seeing their real colors. This isn’t a good man, because an excellent man will not make one feel shitty regarding your requirements.
Honestly, in every arrangement similar to this i have ever seen, the unavoidable often occurs: the lady asks several times for something more, the guy rebuffs her, the woman goes along along with it because she does not want to stop exactly what she’s got, which will be a lot better than nothing–and then 2-3 weeks or months later on, he views a lady he really wants to actually date and also the very first woman gets harmed.
It is possible that will not take place. It is possible you will ask him to become your boyfie, in which he’ll say yes, and it will be awesome. But the complete “putting us in a field" thing is a fairly bad sign, genuinely. […]